Solita C. Roberts is a self-trust keynote speaker who helps women rewrite the stories they wear and become stronger advocates for themselves.
Where I've spoken
Invited to start the conversations women need, from university classrooms to conference stages.
Most women aren't short on confidence. They're carrying stories that were never theirs.
We pick up unwritten rules early, from family, from school, from the first job that told us to tone it down, and we keep wearing them long after they stop fitting. Now filters and AI images are adding new ones.
You can see these stories in how we dress, how we speak up, and how often we wait to be invited. My work starts with the story, and helps women build the self-trust to advocate for themselves.
Signature keynote
Gutsy Move: Rewriting the Rules You Can't Stop Questioning but Keep Living By
An interactive keynote that helps women name the unwritten rules they keep questioning but still live by, and make one gutsy move toward the story they actually want.
Gutsy Move is a warm, interactive keynote designed to move women from recognition to action.
Through story, reflection and audience participation, women name the rules shaping how they show up, see what those rules are costing them, and choose the one they're ready to rewrite, at work and in life.
About the experience
This experience is designed for organizations that want their women to show up with more confidence, clarity and self-trust. Whether it's an ERG, a leadership program or a full conference, Gutsy Move gives women a shared language for the stories holding them back, one they keep using long after the session ends.
Delivered in person or virtually, as a keynote or an interactive workshop, and tailored to your audience, theme and time.
Who it's for
- Women's ERGs and leadership programs
- Universities and student organizations
- Women's conferences and professional associations
- HR and L&D teams investing in their women
Key outcomes
- Clear language for the unwritten rules holding women back
- More trust in their own judgment
- Confidence to speak up, ask and advocate for themselves
- One gutsy move they're ready to make right away
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From the series
The story we were handed, and the one we get to write.
On The Stories We Wear, every unwritten rule meets its rewrite.
Don't be too much.
You don't have to make yourself smaller to belong.
Step into The Fitting Room
Which stories are you ready to rewrite?
We've all stood in a fitting room, looking in the mirror and asking, does this still fit me? The Fitting Room is that same honest moment for the stories you've been wearing about yourself. Step inside for The Stories We Wear newsletter and your free Story Rewrite Guide, so you can take off what no longer fits and try on a story that feels like you.
The Story
Rewrite Guide
Notice it • Question it • Rewrite it • Own it
You were handed stories about who to be. You get to choose which ones you keep.
A guided workbook to help you name the unwritten rules you live by, and write the story you choose instead.
